We have all the time in the world, what we need is to manage that time.
I first met Melvin when we were studying in the same university. We spent time together almost everyday. But when our situation changed, he stopped studying and me, I transferred in other school. We're like having a long distance relationship. What we did to make our relationship grow and strong is to have communication since we were far from each other. He started dancing again with his old group that makes him busy. Yes, I understand but don't he have time to rest? That little time is all I asked. You can give a simple text while resting, right? Not enough balance? Not a problem, you can ask your friends.
Now, Melvin is working at the Hypermarket. All I know is, he needs to be at work by 1:00 in the afternoon and his shift ends by 11:00 in the evening. He can't always open his Facebook after 11:00 PM because the outlets for the laptop is hidden by his sister. That I understand. So I'm expecting the next day we can have communication. But my expectation ends to disappointment. He always got up late because he's tired from work, so he have to eat and prepare faster so he can't be late for his work. I know his schedule, how he prepare and all. The only thing is, he can't even leave me a text message like "Good morning" or "I have to go", he can do that with chikkalite app from Facebook.
Yes, I'm complaining. But what can I do? I love him. I have to understand him. So, even if it's hard for me to wait for his messages even the possibility is low, I can stand it. I'm used to it. I know he will do everything to make time with me.
Guys, please learn how to manage your time. Give time for your family, friends, work and for your partner. Not everybody is patient enough. Give time to others before it is too late.
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